“#YouArentWifeMaterial If you don’t respect gender roles and follow them. Stay in your lane. Here me out though. When a woman stays in her lane, it’s easy as hell to spot the vacancy. You can see the man’s lane, and if he’s even in it, & driving the car. Yall miss this concept every time. Men drive the car and women provide occasional guidance and direction. Otherwise just be a passenger & ride. Stop dictating where your relationship goes. See where he takes you. If it’s not to your liking, get off the ride. Men aren’t making changes, his style is his style. Your wants are your wants. If they don’t fit now, they won’t later. A woman doing all the work in the relationship might work, but you’re going to get tired boo. You know what’s worse than a man who won’t? What’s worse than a man who won’t is a man who doesn’t know how. I know you think it’s easier to teach. Lie. It’s easier to motivate. Everyone has an issue with the gender roles one. That’s fine. Keep doing his job. You’ll get tired. Trust me. Here’s the deal. It’s perfectly ok for a woman to know how to do everything. But it’s key for her not to. Because on the flip side, you won’t find men taking on the woman responsibilities. This is where yall should apply the women are smarter than men card. Yall can learn to do everything we do. We can’t learn how to do yall. As soon as women get of the “I can do it all”, you’re going to create a space for him to be doing what he’s supposed to. If there’s a gap, you’ll see what type of man you have. Don’t you all want the comfort of knowing you can let it all go and he’ll take care? I prefer my wife to have the housewife do nothing option, but chose to work, rather than her be forced to grind because I can’t hold it down.” — www.thedatingparamedic.blogspot.com
